Friends Forever

Last weekend the boys and I went to Wilmington for a couple of while Russ was away. We had a nice time, and on Sunday we went to my friend Trisha's house so the boys could visit with her two boys while I visited with her. We all had a nice time, though the visit was too short.

On our way out of town, the boys were asking me about Trisha and I was explaining to them how we became friends. You see, the first week of Jr. High School, I was "the girl with the bow in her hair"... (Madonna was very much a trendsetter then). The nickname was not one of fondness...as Trisha did not like me initially, and I did not even know it. But seeing as to how it was the beginning of the school year, Trisha decided to have a slumber party to meet new people, and what do you know... I was invited. I was a little scared that I was going to be the target of some slumber party prank, but much to my joy, that was not the case and Trisha and I became best friends from that night on!

Trisha and I were inseparable for so many years and I am so thankful that I still call her friend! We have been friends for 24 years! Since I have been gone from Wilmington for many years, it was so great to visit her beautiful home and see what a wonderful mom and wife she has become. I am certainly thankful that God allowed her to be a part of my life and that she is still a part of my life!

This whole thought process entered my mind, because as we were leaving Wilmington, I realized that I had lived in that town for 24 years of my life... my boys will not have that same fate... we have already moved 4 times, and growing up with the same best friends is not an option for our boys. Sadly! God will comfort and provide, I know, but it is still a little sad. With technology and the internet, they will be able to stay in better contact with the friends they do make, but it is different. I will just chose to be thankful for whatever friends God will provide for us all!